“I’m Just Trying to Move Forward”

vickyroquepr
Apr 9
3 min read

*Real Reflections for Entrepreneurs Without a Business Legacy*

There’s something nobody tells you when you decide to become an entrepreneur: Not all businesses are born into families. Some are born in the middle of chaos.

I’ve heard different versions of this story. The names, circumstances, and services may change, but the heart of the story stays the same: “I’m just trying to move forward with my idea, but no one at home understands what that even means.”

When Entrepreneurship Means Educating Your Family

“I work from home, but they think I’m on vacation.” “My partner says they support me, but they want to weigh in on everything—even if they don’t understand the business.” “The kids aren’t interested… to them, this is just one of my silly ideas.” “My partner and I started a business together, but we have different visions, give conflicting directions, and we’re not on the same page.”

Sound familiar?

Maybe it’s you. Maybe you know someone going through it.

Starting a business without a family business background is a whole different level of emotional and mental challenge. There’s no tradition to lean on. No “dad’s or mom’s company” to inherit. What you do have is drive, an idea, and—more often than not—a mountain of responsibilities on your back.

Stories That Repeat More Than You Think

I’ve worked with dozens of entrepreneurs who face this every day:

They’re constantly interrupted because their family thinks being your boss means “being available.”
Their partner wants to be involved, but differences in vision cause more arguments than progress.
Their kids show no interest at all—and that hurts when you dream of leaving a legacy.
The family is part of the business, but no one communicates. Everyone’s pulling in different directions.
And the most common one: that woman or man who’s carrying everything alone—business, house, kids, grandparents, the dog, the cat… and the social pressure of, “You chose this, so figure it out.”

So, What Can You Do?

Here are some truths (shared with love) and real-world suggestions:

✅ PROS of starting a business without a family legacy:	❌ CONS to acknowledge:
You have the freedom to build from scratch—no molds. You innovate because you’re not tied to “how it’s always been done.” You become an example for others in your circle who never thought they could do it. Your success has your full name on it. Period.	Loneliness hits hard—especially at the start. Lack of family understanding can be emotionally draining. There’s no one to easily delegate to. You have to teach everything from scratch: from what a budget is to why you can’t run errands for mom during work hours.

Grounded and Practical Recommendations

Educate your circle: Not everyone knows what entrepreneurship really means. Explain it. Make it relatable. Use examples. Set boundaries without guilt.
Find an external support system: If your family can’t be that for you, create it. There are communities, groups, mentors, coworking spaces (or even a podcast like the one we’ll be launching soon 😉).
Divide and conquer: Set realistic tasks. If you’re a parent and a business owner, delegate. You don’t have to be a superhero.
Be grateful and keep moving: Sometimes support won’t look like what you expected. Don’t take it personally. Appreciate what you do get and stay focused on your vision.
Hold monthly check-ins (with your family or your team): Communication is key. No family or business survives without it.

Apply these tips. From experience, I know they’ll help.

Don’t burn yourself out alone. There are mentors, books, and professionals who can help channel what overwhelms you and boost your productivity.

We’ll continue exploring this topic in our upcoming Podcast, where we’ll share more stories, real experiences, and practical advice for those walking this path without a business surname.

Are you one of them?

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